The Impact of Electronic Games on the Psychological and Social Development of Children


Author: Muhammed ibn Taqi


The issue of electronic games and their influence upon mental and social health is not a marginal concern, nor is it limited to entertainment ethics. Rather, it constitutes a foundational question in contemporary Islamic pedagogy (al-tarbiyah al-islāmiyyah), particularly as it relates to the safeguarding of the child (ḥifẓ al-nashʾah), the stability of the family, and the continuity of religious identity. When examined carefully, electronic games—together with their accompanying audiovisual stimuli—emerge as one of the most powerful tools shaping behavior, cognition, and social orientation in the modern age.


It must be noted that these games are not value-neutral. They are produced within specific cultural, ideological, and economic frameworks, and are disseminated globally with deliberate design choices that influence perception, desire, and habit formation. Their widespread accessibility has rendered them present in the daily lives of children across all age groups, often without meaningful supervision. This unrestricted access has transformed electronic games into a primary environment of socialization, rivaling—if not replacing—the family, the school, and the religious space in formative influence.


From an analytical perspective, this phenomenon represents a form of soft infiltration (ikhtirāq nāʿim), whereby values, behavioral norms, and cognitive patterns are transmitted indirectly. Unlike overt ideological confrontation, this method operates through pleasure, repetition, and emotional engagement. Over time, such exposure produces gradual but profound changes in attitudes, priorities, and conduct, especially among children whose cognitive and moral frameworks are still under construction.


One of the most concerning outcomes associated with excessive engagement in electronic games and screen media is the increasing prevalence of social withdrawal and developmental difficulties, including autism spectrum–like symptoms and related neurodevelopmental patterns. While autism is a multifactorial neurodevelopmental condition with strong genetic and early neurobiological determinants, recent empirical studies and observational data indicate that prolonged isolation, reduced real-world interaction, and excessive screen exposure are associated with worse developmental outcomes and increased ASD-like symptom expression in children. For example, a cohort study using national child health data found that higher screen time (e.g., 4 + hours per day) was correlated with increased autism-like symptoms and that less daily parent-child play was associated with more pronounced social-communication concerns in toddlers. Higher everyday screen viewing was also associated with greater symptom severity and social communication deficits in preschool-aged children.


Additional research using the ScreenQ measure reported that among children diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, higher levels of screen exposure were significantly correlated with greater symptom severity and lower developmental scores, and that screen use without active adult facilitation was related to impaired social interaction outcomes.


Other longitudinal findings show that early and greater screen time in infancy and toddlerhood is associated with atypical sensory processing and developmental profiles that are risk factors for later social and communication difficulties.


Although systematic reviews emphasize the largely observational nature of this research and note that causality cannot be definitively established, the pattern across multiple studies is consistent: greater daily screen time and less face-to-face social interaction are linked with more pronounced autism spectrum–like traits, reduced social engagement, and related developmental concerns.


Importantly, these risks are compounded when parental oversight and active engagement are absent, since digital devices then become substitutes for emotional presence, real social stimulation, and structured upbringing. Interventional studies that reduced children’s screen time while increasing guided social interaction found significant improvements in core symptoms and family stress, providing evidence that parental involvement and social engagement can partially mitigate detrimental patterns seen with high unsupervised screen exposure. 


In such cases, electronic games cease to be mere pastimes and instead become dominant psychological environments. Children immersed in these environments often exhibit diminished emotional regulation, weakened attention spans, and reduced capacity for interpersonal engagement. Families may gradually lose their formative role, while external commercial entities profit from both the production of these games and the subsequent treatments required for the psychological conditions exacerbated by them.


It is within this context that Islamic guidance on child upbringing must be revisited—not as abstract moral instruction, but as a comprehensive developmental framework grounded in realism and human nature (fiṭrah). The Prophetic and Imamic narrations concerning stages of childhood are particularly instructive, as they outline a structured model of growth that balances freedom, discipline, and companionship.


We read in Wasa'il us shia, Vol 21, P476 where prophet(saws) says:

“A child is a master for seven years, a servant for seven years, and a minister (or companion) for seven years. If by the age of twenty-one you are pleased with his character, then continue with him; but if not, then discipline him, for you have fulfilled your duty before God.”


We also read in Makarim al-Akhlaq, vol 1, P222 where prophet(saws) says:

That one of you disciplines his child is better for him than giving half a measure in charity every day.


we further read on page 221 of makarim al-akhlaq, vol 1 where imam al-sadeq(as) said:


Let your child play for seven years, discipline him for seven years, and keep him close to you for seven years. If he succeeds, then all is well; otherwise, there is no good in him.


These narrations demonstrate a developmental philosophy that recognizes play, discipline, and companionship as sequential necessities. Notably, none of these stages advocate abandonment or neglect. Rather, they presuppose continuous parental presence and intentional guidance—precisely what uncontrolled digital immersion undermines.


From the standpoint of mental health, electronic games are engineered around reward-based mechanisms that stimulate dopamine release, closely resembling addictive behavioral cycles. This is particularly dangerous for children with autism or anxiety-related vulnerabilities, who are more susceptible to repetitive stimulation and predictable digital feedback. Addiction in this context leads to reduced engagement with real social relationships, erosion of self-regulation, and increasing dependence on artificial stimuli for emotional satisfaction.


Contrary to claims made by developers, virtual interaction does not equate to social development. Communication devoid of physical presence, emotional nuance, and real-time moral consequence fails to cultivate empathy, patience, or accountability. Consequently, excessive gaming correlates with social isolation, weakened family bonds, and declining participation in communal life.


Furthermore, the phenomenon of overstimulation must be addressed. Rapid visual transitions, intense sound effects, and continuous novelty overload the developing nervous system, impairing attention, sleep patterns, and emotional stability. For children on the autism spectrum, such exposure often results in heightened anxiety, stress episodes, attention fragmentation, and sleep disturbances.


Equally significant is the erosion of critical thinking. Digital games frequently provide pre-structured solutions and immediate gratification, reducing opportunities for independent reasoning, creative problem-solving, and reflective thought. This stands in direct contradiction to the Qur’anic emphasis on contemplation and intellectual engagement.


(“Do they not reflect upon the Qur’an?” – Surah Muhammad, 47:24)

Islamic pedagogy, therefore, prioritizes structured living: balanced time management, purposeful activity, and conscious moral development. This includes tailored care for children—especially those with developmental challenges—through outdoor engagement, guided social interaction, educational play, and creative expression.

The responsibility in this matter is collective. The family constitutes the first line of formation, the school reinforces intellectual and ethical discipline, and society at large must cultivate an environment that supports moral resilience and cultural continuity. In Islam, upbringing is not an individual endeavor but a shared trust (amānah) between parents, community, and divine accountability.


We ask Allah Almighty to preserve the faith, protect the children of the believers, and frustrate all efforts that seek to undermine the moral foundations of the Muslim family. Indeed, He is All-Hearing and Responsive.