The story of Karbala is a profound lesson in many virtues, and one of the most striking among them is the lesson of true friendship, beautifully exemplified by the unwavering loyalty of Habib ibn Muzahir al-Asadi.
Habib ibn Muzahir was a venerable companion of Imam Ali (a), Imam Hasan (a), and Imam Hussain (a). His deep connection with the family of the Prophet (s) was rooted in his unwavering faith and his profound understanding of the divine mission they carried. According to historical sources, Habib had the honor of living during the time of the Prophet Muhammad (s) and later became a member of the elite force known as the shurtat al-khamis under Imam Ali (a). This special military unit was known for its loyalty, bravery, and dedication to justice.
One of the most significant aspects of Habib's life is his conversation with Maytham al-Tammar and Rushayd al-Hajari. These discussions revealed their profound knowledge of future events and secrets shared by Imam Ali (a). This indicates that Habib, along with his companions, was privy to the divine knowledge of future occurrences, highlighting his deep spiritual insight and the trust placed in him by the Imams.
Habib's role in inviting Imam Hussain (a) to Kufa is a testament to his sincere commitment. He was among the first to urge Imam Hussain (a) to come to Kufa, pledging support and allegiance. This invitation, however, was met with treachery by many of the Kufans, who later abandoned their promises and betrayed Imam Hussain (a).
Despite this widespread betrayal, Habib stood firm. His loyalty did not waver even when faced with the direst consequences. On the day of Ashura, Habib commanded the left flank of Imam Hussain's army with remarkable courage and dedication. He fought valiantly until he attained martyrdom. His death had a profound impact on Imam Hussain (a), who expressed deep sorrow and left the judgment of their martyrdom to God.
In Ziyarat al-Nahiya al-Muqaddasah and Ziyarat al-Rajabiyya, peace is invoked upon Habib ibn Muzahir al-Asadi, honoring his sacrifice and steadfastness.
True Friendship: Lessons from Karbala
The narrative of Karbala starkly contrasts the betrayal of the Kufans with the steadfast loyalty of Habib. Many in Kufa wrote letters to Imam Hussain (a), inviting him and promising their support. However, when the moment of truth arrived, they turned their backs, driven by fear and political pressure. In this sea of treachery, Habib's unwavering support stands out as a beacon of true friendship.
True friendship, as taught by Karbala, is characterized by:
1. Loyalty in Adversity: Habib's loyalty did not waver despite the immense danger and pressure. True friends stand by each other, especially in times of difficulty.
2. Sacrifice: Habib was willing to sacrifice his life for Imam Hussain (a). True friendship often demands personal sacrifices for the well-being of the other.
The story of Habib ibn Muzahir al-Asadi teaches us that true friendship is rare but invaluable. It is marked by unwavering loyalty, selfless sacrifice, and a deep spiritual connection. In the face of widespread betrayal, Habib's loyalty to Imam Hussain (a) remains a timeless lesson in what it means to be a true friend.
Note: It is worth mentioning that in his book, Asrar al-Shahadat, Fadil al-Darbandi has presented detailed accounts of the meeting of Habib ibn Mazahir with Muslim ibn Awsajah in a perfume shop in the ket of Kufa, where the latter had come to buy hair dye; and also about the letter of Imam al-Hussain(as) to Habib calling him for support, the conversation between Habib and his wife about going to Karbala, the instructions issued by Habib to his servant to keep his horse ready for him at the outskirts of Kufa, the details of how Habib reached Karbala, and the greetings sent to him by Lady Zaynab (a) on his arrival. Like many other matters found in this book, there is no mention of these events in the reliable sources. It is unfortunate that many reciters and composers of elegies rely on these stories.